50,000 hours sounds a bit high to me. I would expect something more in the 20,000 range. Still 4 hours a day, 365 days a year is 1460 hours a year. You are probably going to replace it before 7 years is over.
LCDs are bright, much brighter than a CRT. If it is too bright, then you turn the brightness control down, that is what it is there for.
Most dead pixels occur in manufacturing. The manufacturing process lays down 3,888,000 thin film transistor cells over the area of the glass, along with all the connections to control them. The occasional dead pixel is not that surprising. Most manufacturers will have a specification for the number, a max number of dark sub-pixels, a smaller number for the bright sub-pixels and a minimum allowed distance between any two dead pixels.
Uninstalling your video card will not get rid of dead pixels. they are a physical defect in the LCD panel. Dropping the resolution may cause a dead pixel to be less noticeable. If you run your 1440 by 900 panel at 720 by 450, then you will have four panel pixels per desktop pel. So if one is dead now you get 75% of the light, compared to 0% for the full resolution.
An LCD monitor will run of any VGA system.
There is no such thing as an analog to digital adapter. (or vica versa)
DVI comes in three flavors:
DVI-D This is digital. R G B are transmitted on separate lines as 10 bits per byte to reduce bandwidth (look up TMDS if you want to read how adding bits actually can reduce the bandwidth)
DVI-A This is analog. This has exactly the same signals as a VGA connector but with higher quality connection.
DVI-I Has all the pins for DVI-D and DVI-A
Most adapter cards with DVI use a DVI-I connector so you can connect analog or digital. They include an adapter that maps the signals from DVI-A to a VGA connector so that you can connect a monitor that has a VGA cable.
If you have it the DVI-D can give a slightly better looking picture.
Widescreen is a feature that can sell more monitors.
For the same diagonal size a widescreen monitor has slightly less pixels and slightly less screen area.
However, watching movies on a widescreen you do not have the big black bars above and below the image. Also your eye and brain is more used to scanning left-right compared to up-down to having information spread across is a bit easier to use.